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| Friday, September 29, 2006 (20:43:57) - Ten Things I Hate About Men |
Right after you end a relationship, you always look back on that person and find what you didn't like. I guess it's some way of making us feel better for breaking up. We minimize his good qualities and blow his bad ones out of proportion.
Well I actually learn from it. You know when you're first in a relationship you have the blinders on. The little things that would normally drive you nuts, you overlook ‘cause he's so cute! Not me girlfriend. I have a list.
And that's what my blog is about today, the ten things men do that irritate me. Now, I didn't say all women or even claim to know what irritates anybody else. But chances are fellas, that if it irritates me, it probably irritates her, too!
Thinking my driver's license is not real:
Somehow men just don't see our driver's license as being quite as valid as theirs. They would rather drive, which doesn't bother me. It's that backseat driving that makes me bonkers! Statistics show, women are involved in far fewer accidents than men. Why do you think our insurance rates are cheaper? So, when I'm driving, lemme drive!
Assuming the house cleans itself:
Sorry to be break it to you, guys, but no, your dirty underwear does not pick itself up off the bathroom floor and miraculously end up in the hamper, food does not miraculously appear on the table, or in the fridge, clothes don't wash and dry themselves, and the dishes don't wash themselves overnight. Who do you think does all these things? Could it be the other person in the house who also has a nine-to-five job? I sure would appreciate some help now and then, without you expecting a Nobel Peace Prize in return?
Being jealous:
Listen, if I'm with you, it's because I wanna be. Jealousy is childish. Men that are jealous make me feel closed in. A little jealousy is fine. Extreme jealousy is unhealthy and can lead to more serious problems. If you're that scared I'm going to leave you to be with that younger, better looking guy, then either get into the gym or get better in the bedroom.
Worshipping your Mom:
Some guys think that their mom is a direct descendant of Jesus or something. My cooking, housekeeping, social, or whatever skills, always fall short in comparison. And any criticism we may express of this wondrous creature makes him look as if he's just been kicked in the teeth by his best-friend. Guys loving your Mom is healthy and sometimes it's really cute. Nobody ever found Norman Bates or Ed Gein cute, though. If you were meant to be with your mom, you would've been your dad.
Obsessive Competitiveness:
Life, according to some men, is one long competition, in which there are winners and losers. But, women tend to be more co-operative and conciliatory by nature. The only losers I've known are guys that can't handle me beating them at a silly game.
Assuming your spending is necessary and mine is wasteful:
All that money you spent at the strip club with your friends is not essential to life. Ok, maybe it is. But it's no more unnecessary than a full day treatment at the spa.
Refusing to ask directions:
Is a man expected to know all roads leading everywhere, even if he's not been there before? And what would happen if he stopped and asked someone instead of driving in circles for 45 minutes? Instantaneous combustion? A public whipping? Instant castration? Surely not, but the prospect, for some reason, is as daunting.
Wanting to fix things, instead of listening to me:
When I've had a bad day, I just want to talk about it. If I wanted your advice or help in fixing something, I would ask. For us girls, sometimes talking about something just makes it better. You can't solve all of my problems, but I don't want you to. I just want you to listen.
You're not beautiful forever:
Guys, your beer gut and droopy pants are not attractive. You may have been super fine in your 20's but gravity has taken its toll. What attracted us to you ten years ago is not what's going to attract us to you now. You've gotta be a nice guy to make up for the effects of age. Fat, ugly, old men can still get the girl. Fat, ugly, old, mean men probably won't.
Ogling the other girl:
Listen, I know that you're going to see another girl that's prettier than I am while we are out. That doesn't mean you should stare at her. As long as I am with you, I should get your attention. |
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| Friday, September 22, 2006 (13:40:22) - My Guide to Online Dating |
There are tons of ways to meet that someone special. You can hit your relatives or friends up for introductions. You can be social and try to meet someone at your church (if you go), at the local bar/club, or just by striking up a conversation with a cute guy in the store.
Get ready for some rejection, though. The toughest part about meeting someone face to face like that is when they've decided they're not interested, they have to either avoid you or just tell you they're not interested. If you're the least bit insecure already, this can be devastating and may even hold you back from doing again in the near future.
I think that's why online dating has become popular. You put a profile and upload some pictures to a website, like BikerKiss.com, where the potential suitor browses or searches until he finds what he is interested in. If that's you, he messages you through the site. If he decides to gloss over your profile, you never know it because you don't get a message saying he's not interested.
Once you get that message you know he's at least interested a little. You check out his profile and decide you' like to meet him as well. This initial meeting is the hard part.
Online dating is very tricky and difficult. All you got to go by is what he said about himself. There's no girlfriend giving you a second opinion based on her interaction with him. You have to be very cautious about what you believe.
He says in his profile he is a ‘Real Estate Professional'. That's pretty vague. He could either be a Donald Trump or an agent who's still working on his first listing. Don't let your imagination get the best of you. Have realistic expectations.
Be careful about how much personal information you give out before you meet and even before you get to know him. There are some crazy and sick people out there. Don't tell him where you work. Whatever you do, don't give out your home address and phone number unless you are comfortable with that person.
Meeting that future Mr. Right for the first time can be nerve racking. You want to take the risk, but you should protect yourself too. I would meet him in a public place definitely not alone. Even when you are in public with him be on guard. It might be a good idea to have a friend at the place where you're meeting watching from afar, just in case. Another good idea would be to have that friend either with you or in another location near by where you can give a distress signal. This way your friend can come by and ‘rescue you'.
If you can't have a friend with you or nearby, tell a close friend what you'll be doing and make sure that they know you will call to check in later. Instruct them that if you do not call something is wrong. Ask them to call the police after a predetermined time if they haven't heard from you.
After your initial meeting is over, you should both go your separate ways. Regardless of how well you hit it off, you still barely know him. If you decide to “spend more quality time with him” that night and you just have to, then call a friend and let them know. Follow the same guidelines as above and just move your time to the next morning.
Listen I'm not saying that you should be a paranoid schizophrenic! But you should take precautions to protect yourself. After all, there's no worse way to end a date than to find yourself with trapped with some Ed Gein freak! |
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